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How to Remove Yourself from MyLife

MyLife is one of the most difficult data brokers to opt out of. Phone-only verification and aggressive upselling make this a frustrating process — but it is possible.

Last updated: February 2026

15-20 min

Time needed

Hard

Difficulty

7-14 days

Removal time

Warning: Difficult Process

MyLife is known for aggressive upselling during the opt-out process. They may try to sell you a "reputation score" service or premium membership. You do not need to pay anything to remove your data. Stay firm and insist on free removal.

What MyLife Collects About You

MyLife goes beyond basic people-search data. They create "reputation scores" — a controversial rating they assign to people based on public records. A MyLife profile typically includes:

  • Full name, age, and date of birth
  • Current and past addresses
  • Phone numbers and email addresses
  • Relatives and associates
  • A "reputation score" (1-5 stars) they generate about you
  • Public records including court, property, and criminal records

Two Ways to Remove Your Data

Method 1: CCPA Request (Recommended for California Residents)

If you're in California, the CCPA gives you a legal right to deletion. This is the strongest approach:

  1. Go to mylife.com/ccpa
  2. Fill out the CCPA deletion request form with your name, email, and state
  3. Explicitly request deletion of all personal information
  4. MyLife must respond within 45 days under CCPA

Not in California?

Many states now have similar privacy laws with deletion rights. Check our State Rights Lookup to see what laws protect you. Even without state law, you can still use Method 2 below.

Method 2: Direct Contact (All States)

For non-California residents, you'll need to contact MyLife directly:

  1. Find your profile: Search for yourself at mylife.com. Note the URL of your profile.
  2. Call customer service: Call (888) 704-1900 during business hours (Pacific Time)
  3. Request removal: Tell them you want your profile and all associated data removed. Be specific — ask for removal of your "reputation score," personal details, and any records they have.
  4. Expect pushback: They will likely try to sell you a premium membership or "reputation monitoring" service. Decline firmly. You have no obligation to pay for removal.
  5. Get confirmation: Ask for a confirmation email or reference number. If they don't provide one, note the date, time, and name of the representative.
  6. Follow up in writing: Send a follow-up email to privacy@mylife.com referencing your call and requesting written confirmation of deletion.

Phone Call Tips

  • Be polite but firm — getting angry doesn't help
  • Say "I want to opt out and have my profile deleted" clearly
  • If they offer a paid service, say "No thank you, I just want my free listing removed"
  • If they transfer you or put you on hold, stay on the line — this is a common tactic to make people give up
  • Document everything: time of call, who you spoke with, what they said

After You Submit

  • CCPA requests: MyLife has 45 days to process. Mark your calendar.
  • Phone requests: Ask for a timeline — typically 7-14 days
  • Verify removal: Search for yourself again after the stated period
  • Document everything — use our Opt-Out Tracker

If MyLife Won't Remove Your Data

MyLife has a reputation for being difficult. If they refuse or don't respond:

  1. File a CCPA complaint with the California Privacy Protection Agency (even if you're not in CA — they regulate CA-based companies)
  2. File an FTC complaint at reportfraud.ftc.gov
  3. File with your state AG — many state attorneys general have consumer protection divisions that handle privacy complaints
  4. Send a formal written request via certified mail to: MyLife.com Inc., 6060 Center Drive, Suite 600, Los Angeles, CA 90045

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I have to pay to remove my data from MyLife?

No. Despite what MyLife may imply during the process, you are not required to pay anything. Free removal is your right under CCPA (California residents) and is available to all users through their customer service line. If they insist on payment, this is a red flag — escalate to a regulatory complaint.

What is MyLife's "reputation score" and can I remove it?

MyLife generates a 1-5 star "reputation score" based on public records. This score is not endorsed by any credit bureau or government agency — it's MyLife's proprietary calculation. Yes, you can request its removal along with your profile. This is one of the most important things to specifically mention when requesting deletion.

Why is MyLife so much harder to opt out of than other brokers?

MyLife's business model relies heavily on upselling premium memberships. They make it difficult to opt out because every interaction is a sales opportunity. Other brokers like BeenVerified and FastPeopleSearch have straightforward online opt-outs, but MyLife routes everything through phone calls where they can pitch paid services.

Also Remove Yourself From

Don't stop at MyLife. For maximum protection, also opt out of these major brokers:

Spokeo

Email verification, 24-72 hours

Whitepages

Phone verification required

BeenVerified

Easiest — straightforward process

Intelius

Also removes from ZabaSearch

Track Your Progress

MyLife's lengthy process makes tracking essential. Use our Opt-Out Tracker to set follow-up reminders and document your interactions.